Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Definetion essay

People usually tend to look at both the positive and negative side of a something while providing their thought on that thing, but as far as anger is concerned its negative my far outweighs it positive side.
On 3/15/09 I interviewed my father who is in early fifties rarely gets agitated. My father is a business man and because of the profession that he is in has a habit of very calmly analysis the situation without getting in the heat of battle and forgetting the goal. When asked what anger meant. He said that anger was caused due to the lack of understanding. People when are unable to comprehend the things going around them they get angry.
My next person I next person I interviewed was my aunt .When asked what anger was she responded in a serious unwavering tone that it is destruction. It arises when things don’t follow the predicted path they were met to. It is an emotion which gives them the illusion that they have the power to change. They are afraid of the reality and unable to accept the truth.
The active feeling provoked against the agent; passion, rage; wrath, ire, hot displeasure. (OED) Anger is a common human emotion that we have experienced in our live from childhood to adulthood to our death. It is a state of emotion that ranges form mild annoyance to serious aggression. When people get angry Effects of anger consist of the heart starts pumping blood faster as a result the pulse rate as well as the blood pressure increases. Anger external can be described by the body language. People in anger stare with rage in their eyes and tend to make loud noises. Other features include the forming of wrinkles on the forehead, the decreasing distance between the eyebrows, and the clinching of fist.
Emotion express in different ways .Some express happiness in which a bud blooms to flower in spring similarly a smile blossoms the face while others deliver it with, a tear from the eye rolling down the check - a tear of joy .Both ways express the underlying tone but the surface expression send a vivid comprehension to others. Anger is no different in any context. Anger is emotion which can be expressed three different ways namely direct anger, indirect anger and apathy.
In direct anger people tend to direct the anger to its original source for example if walking down the road and someone stomps your leg, you boil in anger you shout at that person. I was returning for grocery shopping; I saw walking on the footpath when I saw a black Toyota Camry Parked on the side of the road. The emergency lights were flashing. A loud, unpleasant voice made it to my ears. The source of that voice was the person who was talking on a cell phone who was leaning next to the car. He was angry because he was getting late as he had run out of gas. As I passed him, he kicked the tire of the car in order to vent his frustration.
In indirect anger is directed towards someone who has barely if anything to do with the situation. But indirectly is different. For example when some had a rough day scold by as superior or were in a traffic jam. People tend not to reply back to the superior or get angry at the person who caused the traffic jam instead they tend to take their frustration out by finding petty things when they reach home. The anger is not diverted to its origin; instead it is to others who have nothing to do with it. Thus innocent people who have nothing to do with the cause become the scapegoat.
Sometimes anger is never expressed to others instead it is either stored inside the person or the person express it on himself through the act incurring pain on himself to get rid of the anger. Anger is foe of human being it has very rarely good result. In the next interview with my uncle he said “Anger is a human weakness”. It is a common human emotion and it is natural to get angry. He also added the anger was a bad.

Monday, March 23, 2009

Cause and Effect

Anger if asked to people usually they shed light at it by saying it death at the same time providing life to it. Anger can be seen through two different telescope one that shows the positive side while the other shows the negative side. People get angry for a reason. When some one gets angry, their passion toward the object that got them angry increases. This increment in passion in turn Increases the person interest in that object. When this passion increases to the extent that the person can not see the path clearly to goal which is to defeat the object; his view is unclear, and in this unclearness of the conscious led him to take wrong decision. When this wrong decision is made it fires back at the person who made it and an unintended ruckus is created for something that is not worth it. Anger is usually a negative externality .Anger in the real world controls people. If the opposite were applicable it would turn out to be a good thing. Anger can be a positive only if the person in anger is in control of the situation. Anger can be good if it takes you out of apathy, or helps you communicate in a better way with the people you are working around.

Classification & division

Emotion express in different ways Some express happiness in which a bud blooms to flower in spring similarly a smile blossoms the face while others deliver it with, a tear from the eye rolling down the check - a tear of joy .Both ways express the underlying tone but the surface expression send a vivid comprehension to others .Anger is no different in any context. Anger is emotion which can be expressed three different ways namely direct anger, indirect anger and apathy. In direct anger people tend to direct the anger to its original source for example if your were walking down the road and someone stomps your leg, you boil in anger you shout at that person. In indirect anger is directed towards someone who has barely if anything to do with the situation. A person was scolded by his superior who he could not shout at. When that person goes home he or she direct it to the other people living in the house .A husband would get angry at his wife for small petty thing which don’t need to be angered at. Here the husband is redirecting his anger towards the superior to his wife. The last type of anger is never expressed to others instead it is either stored inside the person or the person express it on himself through the act incurring pain on himself to get rid of the anger.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

People usually have a pessimist view of anger which can be traced back to the negative experience they had with anger in their personal or social life. My father is a business man; his work requires him to careful analysis of every situation; one rash decision and you would have a disastrous outcome. In his interview he told me that anger is the product of lack of understanding of person to perceive the situation, and when this happens the person aggression does thing which he never meant and in the end he has to face bitter consequences. Anger is foe of human being it has very rarely good result. In the next interview my aunt as she recollect her past experiences told me that the anger is caused because people are not able to accept or face reality for what it is ; thing don’t go down their predicted path and Same goes for life. A though linger into their mind that they can change what is happening. In the next interview with my uncle he said “Anger is a human weakness”. It is a common human emotion and it is natural to get angry. He also added the anger was a bad thing. While my younger had a drastically different view about anger, He had a positive outlook for anger. My brother told me about the airport episode. He had gone to New Jersey last summer when he returned back to Atlanta it seemed the luggage was no were to be found. My brother waited patiently for about 1.5 hours will I and my father were looking for him .After that he lost his patience and confronted the official in angrily explaining his situation and with 15 minutes the luggage was with plenty apology from the official. In this case we can see that it anger controlled and used in proper manner can prove to be helpful. Here two different age groups collide in their opinion about anger. My brother thing having anger is beneficial while my father thinks that it is destructive. It seems that as people’s age progress people ' opinion changes with their experiences. People don’t consider a small possibility but see the whole picture and determine their outlook towards a particular thing. In this case most people see anger as a bad thing. Anger is a passion; If this passion increases towards something than you become more interested in that thing, but if cannot command this obsession than it shuts down your thinking capability.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

“Field Observations: Anger” (part 2)

“Field Observations # 5 : bush boo"

3/3 3:17
I was surfing through the web when I saw the video about George Bush's surprise visit to Iraq .In Iraq during a media conference, a Iraqi reporter threw his shoes at bush in anger for what he had done to the country. A deeper out look tell the biggest insult in the Arab world is to slap your shoe against somebody .This shows the rage, the resentment to the US. The person was very angry to do such an act.

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“Field Observations # 6 : bad influence"

12: 39 pm
As I was walking on the campus I saw a angry person. The faced looked in rage. When our eyes crossed it felt as if he was trying to prove point. He was illusioning himself that he had power. Many things could have caused to evoke this emotion. May be he had a bad day or his time bad .People are not capable of excepting the reality in front of them; They tend to resist it and anger is the emotion invoked from this situation.

4: 56
“Field Observations # 6 : my lab partner"

It was today when we got our labs in the chemistry class. My partner made a 50. She was upset and a little agitated because of one mistake she gotten the complete lab wrong. She rushed to my with a furious face as to why she had received the grade but when her mistake was clear she accepted the reality of having made a F. People life might become better if they accept the reality getting angry is not the solution. It will only make the problem bigger.

Monday, March 2, 2009

“Field Observations: Anger" part 1

Field Observation # 1 :Car without gas

2/27 7:56 pm

I was returning for grocery shopping; I saw walking on the footpath when I saw a black Toyota Camry Parked on the side of the road. The emergency lights were flashing. A loud, unpleasant voice made it to my ears. The source of that voice was the person who was talking on a cell phone who was leaning next to the car. He was angry because he was getting late as he had run out of gas. As I passed him, he kicked the tire of the car in order to vent his frustration.

Field Observation # 2 : My neighboour
2/28
9:57
My apartment
I had just completed my breakfast when I heard my neighbor on the phone .He was furious as he talked about being coned by someone. He was talking to his friend with rage and fury on the phone. I heard him scream. He was trying illusion himself by shouting, cursing as to think that he posed a power which would change the world to his liking which was impossible. The havoc was just to prove he was right when he was not.

Field Observation # 3 : Overpowered anger
2:13 pm
Spsu library
Near the completion of my research, I heard a loud noise which deviated the attention of all the people sitting at the computer portal. The source was the falling of the CPU which was kicked in aggression by a dull looking, idotic might enhance the description, person. The person at the reference center rushed to see what the noise was. The CPU was not damaged. The person seemed angry because he didn't like something he was seeing or reading on the screen of his PC.

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Field Observation # 4 : The wet woman

I was standing on the second Floor of the J building looking down when I saw two people collide. The first impression was just that they would say sorry but this was different .The girl gave a stare and this was the end the guy was angry. He thought that even thought she was a female how she dares question my manliness. When they met the hearts were but when they left they were bitter cold.