Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Definetion essay

People usually tend to look at both the positive and negative side of a something while providing their thought on that thing, but as far as anger is concerned its negative my far outweighs it positive side.
On 3/15/09 I interviewed my father who is in early fifties rarely gets agitated. My father is a business man and because of the profession that he is in has a habit of very calmly analysis the situation without getting in the heat of battle and forgetting the goal. When asked what anger meant. He said that anger was caused due to the lack of understanding. People when are unable to comprehend the things going around them they get angry.
My next person I next person I interviewed was my aunt .When asked what anger was she responded in a serious unwavering tone that it is destruction. It arises when things don’t follow the predicted path they were met to. It is an emotion which gives them the illusion that they have the power to change. They are afraid of the reality and unable to accept the truth.
The active feeling provoked against the agent; passion, rage; wrath, ire, hot displeasure. (OED) Anger is a common human emotion that we have experienced in our live from childhood to adulthood to our death. It is a state of emotion that ranges form mild annoyance to serious aggression. When people get angry Effects of anger consist of the heart starts pumping blood faster as a result the pulse rate as well as the blood pressure increases. Anger external can be described by the body language. People in anger stare with rage in their eyes and tend to make loud noises. Other features include the forming of wrinkles on the forehead, the decreasing distance between the eyebrows, and the clinching of fist.
Emotion express in different ways .Some express happiness in which a bud blooms to flower in spring similarly a smile blossoms the face while others deliver it with, a tear from the eye rolling down the check - a tear of joy .Both ways express the underlying tone but the surface expression send a vivid comprehension to others. Anger is no different in any context. Anger is emotion which can be expressed three different ways namely direct anger, indirect anger and apathy.
In direct anger people tend to direct the anger to its original source for example if walking down the road and someone stomps your leg, you boil in anger you shout at that person. I was returning for grocery shopping; I saw walking on the footpath when I saw a black Toyota Camry Parked on the side of the road. The emergency lights were flashing. A loud, unpleasant voice made it to my ears. The source of that voice was the person who was talking on a cell phone who was leaning next to the car. He was angry because he was getting late as he had run out of gas. As I passed him, he kicked the tire of the car in order to vent his frustration.
In indirect anger is directed towards someone who has barely if anything to do with the situation. But indirectly is different. For example when some had a rough day scold by as superior or were in a traffic jam. People tend not to reply back to the superior or get angry at the person who caused the traffic jam instead they tend to take their frustration out by finding petty things when they reach home. The anger is not diverted to its origin; instead it is to others who have nothing to do with it. Thus innocent people who have nothing to do with the cause become the scapegoat.
Sometimes anger is never expressed to others instead it is either stored inside the person or the person express it on himself through the act incurring pain on himself to get rid of the anger. Anger is foe of human being it has very rarely good result. In the next interview with my uncle he said “Anger is a human weakness”. It is a common human emotion and it is natural to get angry. He also added the anger was a bad.

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